I have always believed and been taught that God directs our lives. If you have faith and believe, his hand will lead you. I know from personal experience that I have questioned some of the "doors" that were opened and shut in my life. I haven't always been happy or pleased. The good, the bad and the ugly.
Today a dear sweet friend of mine sent me this pic.
"Ask and it will be given to you,
seek and you will find,
knock and the door will be opened unto you."